Forgiving Yourself

Your experience is ultimately a product of what you choose or allow, consciously or otherwise.

What you do not consciously create you allow into your reality under the umbrella of your beliefs, attitudes, thoughts and feelings, sense of deserving & self-value, ego agendas, scripts, stories, patterns, unhealed hurts, and so on.

There are many reasons why you may create, or more likely allow, something negative in your life, including bad treatment from another.

Below are just a few examples:

* You may create it to bring up old pain that needs healing.
* It may be a product of existing limiting beliefs about yourself, others, or life itself (which you can of course change)
* Perhaps you have a victim or martyr story or self-pity agenda running.
* May be you love the drama of it all.
* Perhaps you are avoiding success, love or intimacy, or sabotaging yourself.
* It may be that you are already upset with someone from your past and are repeating the pattern as a means to release buried emotions.
* It could be a situation from which you will learn and grow and become more of who you are.
* Perhaps it is a soul-level contract you have agreed to, whether you are conscious of it or not.

Whatever the reason, and whether you have any idea what that reason is or not, Self-forgiveness (as well as forgiving others) is a way through!  It is a way to let go, heal, change and move beyond to allow more successful loving realities into your life!

We all have 'stuff', yet our stuff is not who we are. Nor is it bad or wrong.
It's what we came here to explore in this lifetime, to learn from, grow, heal, let go of, and evolve, etc.
This does not mean you ever have to experience struggle or hardship, however.
"You can learn more through joy, beauty, wonder, laughter, excitement, love and curiosity than through pain." - Lazaris

There are many ways to heal, release and move beyond inner blocks and patterns.
The more you awaken to the inherent love, truth and magnificence of your being, the more you will let go of what you're not to receive more of your heart's desires.

Self-forgiveness can release much of the negativity, guilt, shame, undeserving, and so on and so forth that blocks happiness and success.

You may not even be conscious of what your blocks are. Self-forgiveness is a place to start.

"Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love."
- Gandhi

You are loved, loving and loveable, ever and always.
You deserve all your heart desires and more!
Know this! Open to receive :-)

Taken from an article by Mark Myhre (the Emotional Healing Wizard)